Verified Submission
relationalguilt
#RI-69ba760c·4 months ago·
1
Author avatar
Lookback: 2 days since argument

tried to fix relationship by carrying his problems

boyfriend left a goodbye message and disappeared for hours, causing a search

What I wish I knew
"how to prioritize myself in the relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't go back or respond if someone reaches out after a breakup"
0
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

Advice for Someone Facing This

Short, upvotable wisdom. The most helpful rises to the top.

No advice yet. Be the first to share wisdom.

Discussion

React, question, or discuss this decision.

Sign into join the discussion
relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.