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#RI-69a91479·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 days after last hangout

tried to be flirty and ask her out

we had a brief hook up, then sex, but she suddenly became distant

What I wish I knew
"she wasn't interested in a relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't fake it, move on and respect her boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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