What Actually Happened
My partner's obsession with looksmaxing and perfectionism controlled my life. He'd switch personalities during arguments, interrupt me, and make decisions for both of us. His online behavior, including reposts of depressing and disturbing content, made me feel insecure and unimportant.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew the red flags earlier and left the relationship sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be aware of the signs of a toxic partner and prioritize your own emotional well-being"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Relationship Category Average
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Impact
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