RelationshipsAbusive
#RI-69f874d3·7 months ago·
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“Stayed in a toxic relationship for 7 years”
What Actually Happened
My husband's habitual lying, immaturity, and lack of responsibility led to a strained relationship, and I became his primary caregiver, but he still prioritized his own desires over mine.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had left the relationship sooner and prioritized my own needs and well-being."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't stay in a relationship that's toxic and draining, prioritize your own needs and take care of yourself."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
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