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2 days ago
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"I kept returning to my inconsistent, on-again/off-again ex."
What Actually Happened
I repeatedly reconnected with an ex who was hot and cold, giving me mixed signals and making me feel confused and lonely. He would pull me back in whenever I tried to move on, but the dynamic was emotionally draining and unstable.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had recognized that his inconsistent behavior was a permanent pattern and not a phase I could fix."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't let a long history with someone justify a present that makes you feel consistently lonely and confused."
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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