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#RI-69a919f4·2 months ago·
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Told a coworker about my boss relationship

Told a trusted friend about my secret relationship with my boss while drunk and vulnerable

What I wish I knew
"To not have been so drunk and vulnerable"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and others, and don't keep secrets that can harm relationships"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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