Relationshipsstruggling
#RI-69ba7aac·6 months ago·
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“to end begging for love and forgiveness”
What Actually Happened
Wife struggles with PTSD, menopause, and resentment; I tried to improve myself but she still doesn't trust me
What I wish I knew
"Her healing process would take longer than mine"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek professional help for both partners, and prioritize self-care"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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