What Actually Happened
Wife struggles with PTSD, menopause, and resentment; I tried to improve myself but she still doesn't trust me
What I wish I knew
"Her healing process would take longer than mine"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek professional help for both partners, and prioritize self-care"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
marriage Category Average
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Impact
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