relationshipBoundary Issues
#RI-69aa84ac·3 months ago·
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“Texted ex following breakup rumor”
What Actually Happened
I found out he contacted an ex who broke up with him 4 years ago, claiming he needed closure
What I wish I knew
"He has a pattern of reaching out to exes when our relationship is struggling"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with your partner about your feelings and boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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