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#RI-6a7aaa2c·about 1 month ago·
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Lookback: 1.5 years after marriage

Telling husband about his self-care

Husband's lack of self-care has made me feel unattracted to him, especially his poor dental hygiene and lack of exercise.

What I wish I knew
"How to approach the conversation without hurting his feelings"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate concerns gently and avoid being judgmental"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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