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#RI-6a7aaa2c·4 months ago·
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“Telling husband about his self-care”
What Actually Happened
Husband's lack of self-care has made me feel unattracted to him, especially his poor dental hygiene and lack of exercise.
What I wish I knew
"How to approach the conversation without hurting his feelings"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate concerns gently and avoid being judgmental"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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