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Relationshipsex-partner reconciliation
#RI-69a9146d·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 month after breakup

“Telling ex about new relationship”

Manipulated and gaslit ex due to unhealed trauma

What I wish I knew
"Delayed sharing improvements with ex"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't rush contact with ex"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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