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relationalex-partner reconciliation
#RI-69a9146d·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 month after breakup

Telling ex about new relationship

Manipulated and gaslit ex due to unhealed trauma

What I wish I knew
"Delayed sharing improvements with ex"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't rush contact with ex"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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