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#RI-69a9154b·2 months ago·
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Telling a guy 'I didn't feel a spark' after a first date

I've had 4 dates where guys said they didn't feel a spark, leaving me confused and disappointed

What I wish I knew
"Maybe be more direct about what I'm looking for in a partner"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about your intentions and feelings"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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