RelationshipsFirst Dates
#RI-69a9154b·4 months ago·
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“Telling a guy 'I didn't feel a spark' after a first date”
What Actually Happened
I've had 4 dates where guys said they didn't feel a spark, leaving me confused and disappointed
What I wish I knew
"Maybe be more direct about what I'm looking for in a partner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about your intentions and feelings"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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