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relationalhonesty
#RI-69ba7716·4 months ago·
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Lookback: at the wedding

tell partner my honest opinion about her dress

I'm worried she'll feel hurt or self-conscious about my opinion

What I wish I knew
"how to phrase it in a gentle way"
If I could tell you one thing
"be honest but also considerate of the other person's feelings"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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