“Tell him about past relationship with coworker”

Item: Tell him about past relationship with coworker
Rating: 7
Author: u_drcoby4415

What Actually Happened

I slept with a coworker for 3 months after a breakup, but we don't talk now

What I wish I knew

"To be honest sooner"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Be transparent about past relationships early on"

Regret Index

3/10

Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.

SettledMixedSevere

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relationships Category

559

relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

11%

of relationships decisions land in the settled band the same as this one.