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#RI-6a6b06fc·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 times almost told, now considering

Telling teenagers alone

STBXH cheated for 2 years, lying about it

What I wish I knew
"STBXH's true reasons for not divorcing"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider telling children alone when safety is a concern"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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