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#RI-6a7aa939·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 month before wedding

“Teaching fiancé to pay bills and rent”

Fiancé complains about paying $500, mom validates feelings

What I wish I knew
"How to handle conflicting family influences"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate financial expectations clearly before marriage"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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