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#RI-6a7aa939·1 day ago·
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Lookback: 1 month before wedding

Teaching fiancé to pay bills and rent

Fiancé complains about paying $500, mom validates feelings

What I wish I knew
"How to handle conflicting family influences"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate financial expectations clearly before marriage"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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