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#RI-6ab0abd0·6 months ago·
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“Talk to girlfriend about job relocation”
What Actually Happened
Girlfriend shuts down job relocation discussions
What I wish I knew
"Understand her reasons for not wanting to move"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Approach the conversation with empathy and understanding"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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