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#RI-6a6b08c6·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 month and a week

tried to apologize and take accountability

partner exposed personal problems to previous coworkers and friends, leading to loss of support system

What I wish I knew
"partner would communicate problems earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"be open and honest in relationships, communicate problems early"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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