RelationshipsBreakup
#RI-69aa8758·5 months ago·
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“take 2 weeks of space before deciding to rebuild”
What Actually Happened
Ex insisted we're broken up despite wanting to rebuild, watched porn during separation
What I wish I knew
"He would respect boundaries during separation"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider whether someone's actions match their words"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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