RelationshipsLong-distance relationship
#RI-6a6b0763·9 months ago·
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“Surprise him for his birthday”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend became less communicative after starting residency, prioritizing co-residents over me.
What I wish I knew
"His needs and limitations during residency"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your needs and boundaries"
Regret Index
7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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