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#RI-6aa6209d·4 months ago·
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Not telling bf about lack of attraction

Feeling guilty, crying, snapping at bf due to lack of attraction

What I wish I knew
"How to have honest conversation about attraction"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest about feelings to avoid resentment"
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7/10
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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