What Actually Happened
My parents' generosity and lack of financial planning make it difficult for me to support them without enabling my siblings
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my boundaries without hurting my parents' feelings"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Use trusts or other financial strategies to retain control over the money given to parents, and communicate boundaries clearly"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
family Category Average
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Impact
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