relationaldivorce
#RI-6a6b061c·7 months ago·
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“wife is divorcing me after 19 years”
What Actually Happened
My wife is divorcing me suddenly after 19 years, with zero notice and no reconciliation efforts.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew she was unhappy and willing to leave."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek support and professional help to cope with the emotional trauma."
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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