relationalunhealthy relationship
#RI-69a910a8·2 months ago·
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“Struggling to decide whether to stay or end the relationship”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend has shown many red flags, including sending me a d pic, being dismissive of my boundaries, and being jealous of my past relationships.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known more about his past relationships and his feelings about my independence before getting involved with him"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of partners who dismiss your boundaries and make you feel guilty for wanting to end the relationship"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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