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#RI-69f8751f·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 10 years

“Tried to earn step-parents' approval”

Struggled to feel accepted by step-mum, adjusted greatly to please her

What I wish I knew
"Biology doesn't guarantee unconditional love, but step-parents should try"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with step-parents, set boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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