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#RI-6a7aaa95·about 1 month ago·
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stopped paying joint bills

He stopped putting money in our joint account, causing overdrafts and unpaid bills.

What I wish I knew
"To communicate with him about financial responsibilities before it got this bad."
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about financial responsibilities."
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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