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#RI-69f87035·5 months ago·
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I stopped initiating intimacy to respect her boundaries

My girlfriend still struggles to be affectionate with me, and our sex life is nonexistent

What I wish I knew
"How to effectively communicate my needs and desires without pressuring her"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be patient and understanding, but also communicate your needs and desires clearly"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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