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#RI-6ac47433·about 2 months ago·
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“stop taking everything personally”
What Actually Happened
I spent weeks thinking about my ex, victimizing myself
What I wish I knew
"people leave for their own reasons, not because of me"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"take ownership of your autonomy and enjoy your own company"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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breakup Category
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breakup decisions logged. Avg regret 4.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
43%
of breakup decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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