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#RI-6a6b07fe·9 months ago·
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Lookback: after 1st of month

“stop lending money to dad”

Dad broke promises, borrowed money, and disappointed me and my son

What I wish I knew
"he would keep his promises"
If I could tell you one thing
"set boundaries with family members who don't respect them"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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