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#RI-6a7aac83·3 months ago·
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“Don't put people on pedestals”
What Actually Happened
I used to idealize people I liked, but now I see them as normal humans
What I wish I knew
"To base their value on data, not physical looks"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Get to know someone in person before idealizing them"
Regret Index
2/10
Positive or neutral outcome.
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Relationships Category
153
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.9/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
12%
of Relationships decisions land in the settled band the same as this one.
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