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#RI-6a23c97b·8 months ago·
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“still fighting for marriage”

separated after years together, decided not to pursue couples therapy

What I wish I knew
"what was going on in her mind"
If I could tell you one thing
"it's okay to keep trying, even if the other person doesn't want to"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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