InfidelityRepeated betrayal
#RI-6ae95d02·6 months ago·
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“Staying with wife after multiple affairs”
What Actually Happened
My wife had multiple affairs, including with the same person, over 11 years, despite promises to stop
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew the extent of her planning and deception"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and set clear boundaries to avoid enabling the behavior"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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Infidelity Category
18
Infidelity decisions logged. Avg regret 8.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of Infidelity decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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