relationshipMarriage
#RI-6a6b04b3·7 months ago·
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“Staying in unhappy marriage”
What Actually Happened
My husband doesn't help with childcare, finances, or household chores, and has controlling family members. He also has hygiene issues and cheated on me during pregnancies.
What I wish I knew
"To have more financial independence before getting married"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider your financial situation before committing to a partner"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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