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marriagetoxic
#RI-6a23c9af·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 17 years

stayed in toxic marriage 17 years

felt emotionally drained, threatened by spouse

What I wish I knew
"acknowledged signs of toxicity sooner"
If I could tell you one thing
"seek support before making a decision"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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marriage Category
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marriage decisions logged. Avg regret 7.9/10 across the category.
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