relationshipsToxic Relationship
#RI-69f86d5f·5 months ago·
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“Stayed in a volatile relationship, ignoring red flags.”
What Actually Happened
I stayed with a partner who constantly picked fights, which took a major mental toll on me. I felt emotionally drained and like I was always walking on eggshells.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew that I couldn't handle her mental issues and that ignoring the red flags would lead to so much turmoil."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore red flags in a partner, even if you have strong feelings for them."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
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