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#RI-69f87494·7 months ago·
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“Deciding whether to stay or divorce after 29 years”
What Actually Happened
We've been together for 29 years, but our marriage has been suffering for 5 years due to poor communication and lack of intimacy
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to improve our communication and intimacy"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider seeking therapy or counseling to improve communication and intimacy in your relationship"
Regret Index
7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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