relationalmisgendering
#RI-6a7aabc1·about 1 month ago·
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“standing up for my gender identity”
What Actually Happened
Someone misgendered me multiple times, I corrected them, but still felt disrespected
What I wish I knew
"how to handle the situation without getting defensive"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"be mindful of your language and respect people's identities"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
685
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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