Relationshipscommunication
#RI-69aa8508·5 months ago·
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“Stand up for my girlfriend even if I disagree”
What Actually Happened
I feel hurt and frustrated when she expects me to support her in situations where I think she's wrong
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my concerns without escalating the situation"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and communicate your feelings in a non-confrontational way"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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