relationshipBirthday celebration
#RI-69a91409·2 months ago·
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“Spouse's expensive birthday trip”
What Actually Happened
I feel left out and unappreciated
What I wish I knew
"Communicate expectations and boundaries"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Discuss and compromise on special occasions"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
14%
of relationship decisions land in the regret band the same as this one.
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