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#RI-69a91409·4 months ago·
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“Spouse's expensive birthday trip”

I feel left out and unappreciated

What I wish I knew
"Communicate expectations and boundaries"
If I could tell you one thing
"Discuss and compromise on special occasions"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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