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#RI-69ba768d·6 months ago·
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“Spent 8 days together before his military deployment”
What Actually Happened
He didn't want me to visit before he left for the military
What I wish I knew
"He was more stressed than I thought"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about feelings and needs"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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