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#RI-6aa37d84·3 months ago·
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Spoke up against partner's criticism

Partner criticized my weight and lifestyle, made me feel hopeless on my birthday

What I wish I knew
"He wouldn't bring up weight issues on my birthday"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and avoid criticizing partners on special occasions"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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