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#RI-6a6b0a0c·7 months ago·
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Lookback: After 1 month of marriage

Married a woman due to societal pressure

Married a woman I didn't love, had sex with her out of obligation, and now feel guilty and trapped

What I wish I knew
"Being honest about my sexuality earlier could have prevented this"
If I could tell you one thing
"Honesty and self-acceptance are crucial in relationships"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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