parentingChild Development
#RI-6aa4d0a8·5 months ago·
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“Expected kindergarten transition to be smooth”
What Actually Happened
Daughter's personality changed after exposure to older kids. She became more performative and said things she wouldn't have before.
What I wish I knew
"How hard the transition would hit emotionally"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be prepared for a big change in your child's personality and behavior"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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parenting Category
35
parenting decisions logged. Avg regret 6.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
60%
of parenting decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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