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#RI-6a7aa94d·3 months ago·
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not attending family gathering

Husband reacted poorly to my request to skip family gathering due to mental health

What I wish I knew
"his grandmother's birthday isn't as important as my mental well-being"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about emotional needs"
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Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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