Relationshipsfinancial expectations
#RI-6aa627a4·6 months ago·
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“pay for sister's kids birthday party”
What Actually Happened
My sister asked me to pay $400 for her kids birthday party without discussing it first. She got mad when I said no.
What I wish I knew
"clear expectations for financial help"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"set boundaries with family members"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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