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#RI-6aa627a4·5 months ago·
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pay for sister's kids birthday party

My sister asked me to pay $400 for her kids birthday party without discussing it first. She got mad when I said no.

What I wish I knew
"clear expectations for financial help"
If I could tell you one thing
"set boundaries with family members"
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