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#RI-6a23c82f·8 months ago·
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“I shouted at my girlfriend when she asked me why I was in a bad mood”
What Actually Happened
I regret shouting at my girlfriend and causing tension in our relationship. I should have been more patient and understanding, especially when she was going through a tough time with her father's accident
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had been more empathetic and aware of her feelings"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and try to understand their perspective, even when you're feeling upset or frustrated"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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