RelationshipsLong-distance relationship
#RI-69a912eb·4 months ago·
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“Should I stay with my boyfriend who's moving 5 hours away for a job”
What Actually Happened
I'm heartbroken at the thought of distance ending our relationship, but I'm stressed now and not sure I can handle months/years of long distance
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had evaluated our relationship's resilience to distance before he got the job offer"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider discussing your concerns and boundaries with your partner before making a life-changing decision"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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