RelationshipsTrust Issues
#RI-6ae17481·3 months ago·
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“Told her a personal secret”
What Actually Happened
She used a personal secret against me during our first argument, saying maybe my dad was right about me being too sensitive
What I wish I knew
"She wouldn't use my trust against me in a disagreement"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious when sharing personal secrets with someone new, and watch for red flags in their behavior"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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