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#RI-6a6b03d9·9 months ago·
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“I'm concerned about my relationship's sexual intimacy”
What Actually Happened
My girlfriend only initiates sex when drunk, making me feel responsible for noticing subtle hints
What I wish I knew
"why she needs alcohol to express her desire"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate openly and honestly about your needs and desires"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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