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#RI-6a6b03d9·7 months ago·
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I'm concerned about my relationship's sexual intimacy

My girlfriend only initiates sex when drunk, making me feel responsible for noticing subtle hints

What I wish I knew
"why she needs alcohol to express her desire"
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate openly and honestly about your needs and desires"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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