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#RI-6a6b04b0·7 months ago·
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Lookback: Years of marriage

Considering divorce after 11+ years

My wife and I have a sexless marriage. I've tried to address issues, but it persists.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew she'd lost interest in sex before we got married"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about intimacy issues before they become a marriage problem"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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