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RelationshipsBreakup
#RI-6a6b0883·9 months ago·
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“Settled for him”

He broke up and came back, then left again, saying he doesn't want to settle for me

What I wish I knew
"He was not committed to our relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't settle for someone who doesn't want to commit"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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